Mu' meneen Brothers and Sisters,

As Salaam Aleikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh. (May Allah's Peace, Mercy and Blessings be upon all of you)

 

One of our brothers/sisters has asked this question:

Q1 CAN LAST BIRTH SINS EFFECT U IN THIS BIRTH?

Q2 IF U ARE GIVING A MEDICINES TO A PERSON TO STOP HIM FROM BAD HABITS AND
U HAVE NOT TOLD THAT PERSON AND U ARE HEPLING THAT PERSON HE FEEL HE IS SICK
SO IS IT RIGHT IN THE EYES OF ALLAH IS IT CONSIDERED A SIN ?

Q3 MY HUSBAND IS A WOMANIZER HE TELL ME THAT HIS HAVING RELATIONSHIP WITH
OTHER WOMAN WHAT I DESERVE BUT I HAVE BEEN A GOOD MOTHER AND A GOOD WIFE SO
THEN WHY SO IS IT THAT HE IS WRONG OR I AM WRONG I STILL AM THERE FOR HIM
BUT HE IS NOT WHY?IS IT DUE TO MY SINS OR HIS SINS? 

 

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Answer:

 

Rebirth sins of past life

In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His help and ask for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide, and whoever He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear witness that there is none worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers.

 

Q-1: CAN LAST BIRTH SINS EFFECT U IN THIS BIRTH?

Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 23 Surah Muminoon verses 12-16:

12      Man We did create from a quintessence (of clay);

13      Then We placed him as (a drop of) sperm in a place of rest firmly fixed;

14      Then We made the sperm into a clot of congealed blood; then of that clot We made a (foetus) lump; then We made out of that lump bones and clothed the bones with flesh; then We developed out of it another creature: so blessed be Allah the Best to create!

15      After that at length ye will die.

16      Again (only) on the Day of Judgment will ye be raised up!

 

Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chatper 58 Surah Mujadila verse 6:

6        (Only) On the Day (of Judgment) that Allah will raise them all up (again) and show them the Truth of their conduct.  Allah has reckoned its (value) though they may have forgotten it: for Allah is Witness to all things.

 

Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 7 Surah Aaraaf verses 24-25:

24      …On earth will be your dwelling-place and your means of livelihood for a (prescribed) time."

25      He (Allah) said: "therein shall ye live and therein shall ye die; and from it shall ye be taken out (for the Day of Judgment)."

Dear and beloved Sister, Islam Declares in Truth that each individual will be born only once, sent to live one life as a test on this earth; and each and every human being will taste the element of death only once…..and then all will be raised up to life again on the Day of Judgment to give a full accounting for their deeds in the Presence of their Lord Creator, Most Majestic, Most Supreme.

 

Every human being will be born only once, and we reiterate only once through the womb of their mother…..and the believers bear witness to the Truth Declared by Allah Subhanah that no one, absolutely no one will ever take birth again. After one has lived their prescribed life on this earth as a test, each and every human being will, without an iota of a doubt, taste the element of death.  Then only on the Day of Judgment will all be raised up (not born!) and given life again and presented before their Lord Creator to give a full accounting of their deeds. 

 

Thus rest absolutely and totally assured that there is absolutely no concept of ‘re-birth’ in the Truth Declared by the One Who Himself is the Truth, Allah Subhanah; thus there is absolutely no question or even concept of one being rewarded or punished for their past in the life of this world!!!

 

Each and every human being will ever only live one life on this earth; each and every human being will taste the element of death; and each and every human being will be raised up (not born) and given eternal and everlasting life in the Realms of the Hereafter. 

 

Q-2: IF U ARE GIVING A MEDICINES TO A PERSON TO STOP HIM FROM BAD HABITS AND U HAVE NOT TOLD THAT PERSON AND U ARE HEPLING THAT PERSON HE FEEL HE IS SICK SO IS IT RIGHT IN THE EYES OF ALLAH IS IT CONSIDERED A SIN ?

Although it would obviously be best that the consent be taken of the one who is being treated, there might arise situations (like a small child, or one of abject old age, or in accidents and emergencies, etc.) where it might be impossible to seek the consent of the patient themselves….thus if the loved ones or guardians whose intentions are good and wish nothing but the best for their loved one who is ill or has an ailment, treat the ailment of their loved one without their consent, there is absolutely no harm.

 

Q-3: MY HUSBAND IS A WOMANIZER HE TELL ME THAT HIS HAVING RELATIONSHIP WITH OTHER WOMAN WHAT I DESERVE BUT I HAVE BEEN A GOOD MOTHER AND A GOOD WIFE SO THEN WHY SO IS IT THAT HE IS WRONG OR I AM WRONG I STILL AM THERE FOR HIM BUT HE IS NOT WHY?IS IT DUE TO MY SINS OR HIS SINS? 

Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 7 Surah Aaraaf verse 33:

33      Say (O Prophet (saws)): ‘The things that my Lord hath indeed (absolutely) forbidden (declared ‘haraam’) are: shameful deeds whether open or secret; sins and trespasses against truth or reason; assigning of partners to Allah for which he hath given no authority; and saying things about Allah of which ye have no knowledge.

 

Allah says in the Holy Quran Chapter 17 Surah Israa verse 32:

Do not even go near ‘zina’ (fornication or adultery) for it is a very indecent thing and a very evil way!

 

Islam has categorically declared an absolute ‘zero-tolerance’ towards the abomination of ‘zina’ (fornication and adultery); thus if your husband is a ‘womanizer’ or develops a illicit or lewd relationship with any woman out of wedlock, regardless of the plethora of reasons he may be able to muster to justify his unlawful deeds…..he will be considered to be in manifest transgression of the Boundaries of the Lord.  Whatever on earth his reasons might happen to be, and absolutely regardless of whether he has been able to convince himself or even the whole world with his flimsy justifications…..Allah is our witness sister, never never ever will one who is involved in the evil of ‘zina’ will be able to justify or get away with his abomination in the Presence of the Lord Most Majestic, Most Supreme on that Inevitable Day of Judgment in the Hereafter.

 

Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me alone.  Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only Source of Strength.

 

Your brother and well wisher in Islam,

 

 

Burhan