Oral sex.
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As Salaam Aleikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.
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Dear
Burhan Bhai..... Assalam-o-Alaikum!!!!!!!!
I posted you the following questions about 45~50 days ago. The answer of the
questions are still awaited. I am very much disappointed that still I am
waiting the answers. BUT NOW, I REQUEST YOU TO PLEASE SEND ME THE ANSWERS AS
SOON AS POSSIBLE. THANX
1) I know Oral Sex is almost probihited (as it is under Khabbaith/closer to
forbidden). But, if both husband and wife in their initial days of marriage
life were unaware that it is forbidden and with the passaage of time it becomes
their compultion although they want to stop this......... BUT, while making
sex/intercourse, they are fully agreed and are pleased/happy by doing SUCKING
each others organs (although they know it is unclean, unhygeinic, impure and
unhealthy)............ SO WHAT ??????? Plz answer me at the earliest.
2) A friend of mine told me that Jabal-e-Rehmat is the place where Hazrat Adam
a.s. repented for eating the forbidden fruit of Paradise and asked Allah`s
mercy by saying this that "in the name of Muhammad (SAW) that name I saw
in Paradise .. plz forgive me ALLAH". Is it means that ALLAH Subhana Taala
planned the birth of Muhammad (SAW) even before the birth of Hazrat Adam and
this whole Universe is being created just for Holy Prophet Muhammad (saw/pbuh).
IS THIS TRUE....and is this have any Qaranic or Sunnah evidence????
3) Kinldy let me know about `SALAT-O-TASBEEH". I have seen this prayer is
famous among the ladies of
HOPING FOR A PROMPT RESPONSE / TO GET ANSWER SOON
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Answer:
Oral sex
In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His
help and ask for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide,
and whoever He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear
witness that there is none worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear
witness that Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His
Messengers.
Q-1:… I
know Oral Sex is almost probihited (as it is under Khabbaith/closer to
forbidden). But, if both husband and wife in their initial days of marriage
life were unaware that it is forbidden and with the passaage of time it becomes
their compultion although they want to stop this......... BUT, while making
sex/intercourse, they are fully agreed and are pleased/happy by doing SUCKING
each others organs (although they know it is unclean, unhygeinic, impure and
unhealthy)............ SO WHAT ??????? Plz answer me at the earliest.
To derive pleasure by touching ones spouse’s private parts
with the mouth is what is known as ‘oral sex’.
Such an act is obviously unnatural, unhealthy, unhygienic, unclean, impure
and this act is not found even in any of the lower animate creations!
Because oral sex is a new deviation of mankind, it finds
specific mention neither in the Quran nor the Sunnah!
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 7 Surah
Aaraaf verse 157:
157 Those who follow the Messenger, the ‘Ummi’ (unlettered) Prophet
(Mohammed (saws)) whom they find mentioned in their own (Scriptures); in the
Law and the Gospel; for he (Prophet Mohamed (saws)) commands them what is just
and forbids them what is evil: he allows them as lawful what is
‘tayyibaat’ (good and pure) and prohibits them from what is ‘Khabaayith’ (bad,
evil and impure); He releases them from their heavy burdens and from
the yokes that are upon them. So it is
those who believe in him, honor him, help him, and follow the Light which is
sent down with him: it is they who will prosper."
But since the permissibility/impermissibility of this
specific act of what is known today as ‘oral sex’ is not mentioned by name or
act anywhere in the Quran and the Sunnah, the God-fearing and the pious amongst
the scholars in Islam have abstained from declaring it ‘haraam’; the most they
have said is that the act is from the ‘khabaaith’ (impure) and thus closer to
the haraam than to the halaal, and the believers should fear Allah and abstain
from it.
Sahih Al-Bukhari Hadith 3.267 Narrated by An Numan bin Bashir
The Prophet (saws) said "Both the halaal
(lawful) and the haraam (unlawful) things are (made) obvious, and in between
them are (suspicious) doubtful matters. So whoever forsakes those doubtful
things lest he may commit a sin, will definitely avoid what is clearly
unlawful; and whoever indulges in these (suspicious) doubtful things
bravely, is likely to commit what is clearly illegal. Sins are Allah's Hima (i.e. private pasture)
and whoever pastures (his sheep) near it, is likely to get in it at any
moment."
Given the unbelievable liberty Islam has granted to the
husband and the wife to enjoy conjugal relations in their sacred bond of
marriage, in our humble opinion, it would be best for the believers who
sincerely fear Allah and the Last Day to strive to abstain from this doubtful
act of ‘oral sex’; and Allah Alone Knows Best.
Q-2: A
friend of mine told me that Jabal-e-Rehmat is the place where Hazrat Adam a.s.
repented for eating the forbidden fruit of Paradise and asked Allah`s mercy by
saying this that "in the name of Muhammad (SAW) that name I saw in
Paradise .. plz forgive me ALLAH". Is it means that ALLAH Subhana Taala
planned the birth of Muhammad (SAW) even before the birth of Hazrat Adam and
this whole Universe is being created just for Holy Prophet Muhammad (saw/pbuh).
IS THIS TRUE....and is this have any Qaranic or Sunnah evidence????
There is absolutely no truth to
this fabrication and myth that the repentance of Prophet Adam (a.s.) was only
accepted by Allah Subhanah after he made the supplication using the ‘name’ of
Prophet Mohamed (saws)! This false
notion of Prophet Adam (a.s.) using the ‘name’ of Prophet Mohammed (saws) is absolutely against
the guidance and teachings of the Holy Quran!!!
Allah Says in the Holy
Quran Chapter 2 Surah Baqarah verses 36-37:
36 Then did the Shaytaan make them (Adam and Hawwa) slip from the
(Garden) and get them out of the state (of felicity) in which they had been. We said: "Get ye down all (ye people)
with enmity between yourselves. On earth
will be your dwelling place and your means of livelihood for a time."
37 Then learnt Adam from his Lord words of inspiration and his Lord
turned towards him (in Mercy and Forgiveness); for He is Oft-Returning Most Merciful.
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 7 Surah
Aaraaf verses 19-25:
19 (Allah Declared) ‘O Adam! Dwell thou and thy wife in the Garden and enjoy (its good
things) as ye wish: but approach not this tree or ye run into harm and
transgression."
20 Then began the Shaytaan to whisper suggestions to them bringing
openly before their minds all their shame that was hidden from them (before):
he said "Your Lord only forbade you this tree lest ye should become
Angels, or such beings as live for ever."
21 And he swore to them both that he was
their sincere adviser.
22 So by deceit he brought about their fall: when they tasted of the
tree their shame became manifest to them and they began to sew together the leaves
of the Garden over their bodies. And
their Lord called unto them: "Did I not forbid you that tree and tell you
that the Shaytaan was an avowed enemy unto you?"
23 They said: "O
our Lord! We have wronged our own souls: if Thou forgive us not and bestow not
upon us Thy Mercy we shall certainly be lost."
24 (Allah) said: "Get ye down with enmity between yourselves. On earth will be your dwelling-place and your
means of livelihood for a time."
25 He said: "therein shall ye live and therein shall ye die; but
from it shall ye be taken out (at last)."
In light of
the above absolutely clear Aayahs of the Glorious Quran, it is clear that Prophet Adam (a.s.) and
Hadrat Hawwa learnt the exact words of the supplication from Allah Subhanah and
sought their Lord’s Forgiveness immediately after their transgression in the
Garden itself. The Merciful Lord
accepted their repentance and forgave them, and only then did He send them to
the earth to give their full test of life.
Q-3:
Kinldy let me know about `SALAT-O-TASBEEH". I have seen this prayer is
famous among the ladies of
'Ikrimah reports
from Ibn 'Abbas that the Messenger of Allah (saws) said to 'Abbas ibn
'Abdal-Mutalib: "O 'Abbas, O Uncle, shall I not give you, shall I not
present to you, shall I not donate to you, shall I not tell you ten things
which, if you do, Allah will forgive your first and last sins, past and present
sins, intentional and unintentional sins, private and public sins? The ten actions are: pray four rak'at,
reciting in every rak'ah al-Fatihah and a surah. And when you finish the Qur'anic recitation
of the first rak'ah, say, while
standing, 'Subhanallah, al-hamdulillah, wa la ilaha illallah, wa Allahu Akbar'
['Glory be to Allah. All praise is due to Allah. There is no God except Allah.
Allah is the greatest.'] fifteen times.
Then make ruku', and while you are in ruku', say the same ten
times; then stand, and say the same ten
times. Then go down and make sajdah, and
while you're in sajdah, say the same ten times.
Then sit after the sajdah, and say the same ten times. Then make sajdah, and say the same ten
times. Then sit after the second sajdah,
and say the same another ten times. That
is seventy-five [repetitions of the phrases] in each rak'ah. Do that in each of the four rak'at. If you can pray it once a day, do so. If you cannot, then once every Friday. If you cannot do that, then once a year. And if you cannot do that then once in your
life."
Related by Abu
Dawud, Ibn Majah, Ibn Khuzaimah, and
at-Tabarani.
The above narration by Ikrimah
is quoted as ‘sahih’ or authentic by several recorders of ahaadiths. Some scholars however have a difference of
opinion and say that the above narration is not authentic, and there is no mention
of the Prayer of Tasbih or ‘Salaat ul Tasbih’ in any of the four major schools
of thought in Islam.
The prayer of ‘tasbih’ are
voluntary and optional, and if one prays the prayer and his intention is to
follow the Sunnah of the Messenger of Allah (saws), he will have his due reward
from Allah Subhanah, Insha Allah; and if one does not offer it for any reason,
there is absolutely no obligation or sin upon him. And Allah Alone Knows Best.
Whatever written of
Truth and benefit is only due to Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever
of error is of me. Allah Alone Knows
Best and He is the Only Source of Strength.
Your brother and
well wisher in Islam,
Burhan
