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Sir one of my friend has told his wife the word of talaaq twice ( told her twice one each two times ) and has traveled away from her as he is working here in the gulf. Now when he travels back home for vacation nearly after a year will he be able to re-unite again with his wife or the relation between them is broken for ever.

 

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Answer:

 

Declared divorce four times

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Your Question: ….Sir one of my friend has told his wife the word of talaaq twice ( told her twice one each two times )….

We assume from your note that your friend that declared a total of two divorces (one divorce two times) and Allah forbid, not four (twice two times!)….for that then would constitute an absolutely irrevocable divorce in Shariah. 

 

Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 2 Surah Baqarah verses 229-230:

229    A divorce is only permissible twice: after that the parties should either hold together on equitable terms or separate with kindness.  It is not lawful for you (men) to take back any of your gifts (from your wives) except when both parties fear that they would be unable to keep the limits ordained by Allah.  If ye (judges) do indeed fear that they would be unable to keep the limits ordained by Allah there is no blame on either of them if she give something for her freedom. These are the limits ordained by Allah; so do not transgress them.  If any do transgress the limits ordained by Allah such persons wrong (themselves as well as others).

230    So if a husband divorces his wife (irrevocably) he cannot after that remarry her until after she has married another husband and he has divorced her.  In that case there is no blame on either of them if they reunite provided they feel that they can keep the limits ordained by Allah.  Such are the limits ordained by Allah which He makes plain to those who understand.

 

Shariah Law permits only three pronouncements of divorce in any one marriage, the first two of which are revocable and the third one is irrevocable.

 

If, as you have stated, your friend declared two pronouncements of divorce upon his wife, he will have deemed to have used up two of his divorce rights in the marriage.  If Allah forbid, were he to declare divorce upon his wife for a third time at any stage of the marriage in the future, that would constitute an absolutely irrevocable divorce and the two of them could never re-marry again, unless the woman marries another man, and that person, of his own free will, happens to divorces her, or he dies.

 

If your friend has declared only two divorce pronouncements against your wife, the divorce is indeed revocable in the Sight of Shariah Law.  If the husband takes back his wife or conjugates with her before the expiry of the wife’s waiting period of ‘iddah’ (three menses period of the wife), the couple can live together as a married couple.

 

But if the husband does not take his wife back, nor conjugates with her and the wife’s waiting period of the ‘iddah’ of divorce expires, the couple can still re-marry and live together as a husband and a wife again, provided they perform a brand new ‘nikaah’ between them.

 

Your Question: Now when he travels back home for vacation nearly after a year will he be able to re-unite again with his wife or the relation between them is broken for ever.

Because your friend has declared only two divorces, the divorce is indeed revocable in Shariah.  The state of the marriage depends whether or not the husband revoked the divorce after the second pronouncement of divorce within the required time period of the ‘iddah’ of the wife or not.

 

If the husband revoked the divorce or conjugated with his wife before the expiration of the period of ‘iddah’, the ‘nikaah’ and the marriage between the couple will be unaffected and the husband can re-unite with his wife upon his return.

 

But if the husband did not revoke the divorce, nor conjugated with his wife before the expiration of the period of ‘iddah’…..a divorce would be deemed established between the couple in the Sight of Shariah Law and of Allah Subhanah…..and the wife would be free to marry anyone of her choice thereafter.  Because only two divorces were declared in the marriage, there is allowance in Shariah for the two to remarry each other again, if both parties wish to do so….but a brand new ‘nikaah’ with a brand new ‘mehr’ will have to be performed between them.

 

Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me alone.  Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only Source of Strength.

 

Your brother and well wisher in Islam,

 

 

Burhan