I have frnd, He is having lack off knwldg in Islam.
Mu' meneen Brothers and Sisters,
As Salaam Aleikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.
(May Allah's Peace, Mercy and Blessings be upon all of you)
One of our brothers/sisters has asked
this question:
Dear
Brother,
My
English is little rusty pls manage.
Pls do tel me & I would like to knw clearly I knw ur ans But still I want
to take him out from this nonsense wat they r doing rit now.
I have frnd, He is having lack off knwldg in Islam he knw abt Islam but
he wont follow he only pray Juma rest all they days he wont as I no from him
self.
He has a affair with one girl she is elderly for him by 3 to 4 yrs & she
got married to ther guy coz at that time my frnd was not in a
position to marry her coz he was a student & that girl elder in her fmly
now she is having 2 kids from the same married person.
Now my
doubt is my frnd & that girl till dated they have a affair they speak
, they meet, Rome & this guy ( my frnd) planned to marry her I asked
him how u'll marry ? & I asked him wat she v'll do whether she gona
give divorce to him(husband) or u guys planned to kill him( I'm just kidding
him,sorry) I oftenly ask this to my frnd but he is telling I believe in
miracles I don't know wat is in his mind wat they r going to do but that girls
husband love her a lot she keeps on telling to him(my frnd) this & he (her
husband) is a good frnd of my frnd ( her boy frnd) U pls tell me how to take
out him from this nonsense ,stupid behavior coz in this their nonsense attitude
is going to spoil every once life (husband,kids. im feeling pity sad on her
husband really very bad wat nonsense they r doing ) my frnd says he will
accept the kids I don't know wat the hell they r trying to do .
Pls advise me how to take out from that girl I wont blame that girl coz both of
them love like a crazy I'm worried coz he is only one child( my frnd) to his
parents.& his father is a Heart patient
Thanks for
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Answer:
Help friend to avoid
sin
In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His
help and ask for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide,
and whoever He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear
witness that there is none worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear
witness that Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His
Messengers.
For two non-mehram unmarried members of the opposite sex
to develop or maintain a ‘relationship’ out of wedlock is by itself a heinous
sin in the Sight of Allah…..but for a believing married woman to develop a
‘relationship’ with a non-mehram man out of marriage, or for an unmarried
believing man to maintain a ‘relationship’ with an already married woman would
be an absolute abomination and a crime beyond compare in the Sight of the Lord
Most Majestic Most Supreme!
Allah says in the Holy
Quran Chapter 17 Surah Israa verse 32:
Do not even go
near ‘zina’ (fornication or adultery) for it is a
very indecent thing and a very evil way!
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 7 Surah
Aaraaf verse 33:
33 Say (O Prophet (saws)): ‘The things that my Lord hath indeed
(absolutely) forbidden (declared ‘haraam’) are: shameful deeds whether
open or secret; sins and trespasses against truth or reason; assigning
of partners to Allah for which he hath given no authority; and saying things
about Allah of which ye have no knowledge.
To say that the unlawful and absolute abomination of the
‘affair’ that the two are involved in would incite and unleash the Wrath and
Anger of the Lord upon them would be an understatement!
If your ‘friend’ and the married woman with whom he is
apparently involved in an ‘affair’ do not fear Allah, turn to Him in sincere
repentance, and immediately desist and bring their ‘relationship’ to an
absolute full stop…..Allah is our witness sister, the evil, pain, anguish and
the absolute and utter turmoil which their this ‘secret little affair’ may
bring upon their own lives and the lives of their loved-ones cannot even be
imagined or fathomed!; and that would only be the chaos and turbulence they
brought on their own in the life of this short and transitory world, leave
alone their state of utter desperation when they are ultimately presented
before their Lord Most High to give a full accounting of their deeds on that
Inevitable and Tumultuous Day of Judgment!!!!
Your
Question: ……U pls tell me how to take out him from this nonsense ,stupid behavior
coz in this their nonsense attitude is going to spoil every once life
Dear and beloved Sister in Islam, as much as you may wish
well for your ‘friend’….but the truth is that when one himself is bent upon
sin, knowing that what he is doing or about to do is an abomination….there is
very little their sincere well-wishers can do except warn them to fear Allah
their Lord and Creator, and desist from their evil. Another thing you can and should do as their
well-wisher is make sincere and constant supplications to your Lord for them,
beseeching Him to have mercy and forgive those involved in the sin, and
imploring Him to guide them towards piety and righteousness…….beyond that
sister, there is very little you can do to help someone who does not wish to
help themselves!
Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only
due to Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me
alone. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is
the Only Source of Strength.
Your brother and
well wisher in Islam,
Burhan
