1)_Does women have mani
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this question:
1)_Does
women have mani
2)_Should
a women perform Gusl if her spouse does not enter her vagina
3)_How
can i know that my wife is sexually satisfied.Pls explain
4)_Does
women have ejaculation like men.
5)_Can
my wife swallow my madhi and mani
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Answer:
Sexual discharge women
In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His help and ask
for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide, and whoever
He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear witness that
there is none worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that
Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers.
Q-1: Does women have
mani
Q-4: Does women have
ejaculation like men.
Sahih Muslim Hadith 608 Narrated by Umm Sulaym
Umm Sulaym asked the Messenger of Allah
(saws) about a woman who sees in a dream what a man sees (sexual or wet dream).
The Messenger of Allah (saws) said: ‘In case a woman experiences a ‘wet-dream’,
she must perform a ‘ghusl’.’ Umm Sulaym said: ‘I was bashful on account of that
and said: ‘Does a woman get discharge?’ Upon this the Messenger of Allah (saws)
said: ‘Yes (it does happen), otherwise how can ( a child) resemble its mother?
The man's sexual discharge is thick and white, and the (sexual) discharge of
woman is thin and yellow ; so the resemblance comes from the one whose genes
prevail or dominate.’
In light of the above authentic narration, it is evident
that a woman too can experience a full sexual discharge or ‘mani’.
Q-2: Should a women
perform Gusl if her spouse does not enter her vagina
Sahih Muslim Hadith 684 Narrated byAbu Musa
There cropped up a difference of opinion
between a group of Muhajirs (Emigrants) and a group of Ansar (Helpers) (and the
point of dispute was) that the Ansar said: ‘The ‘ghusl’ (full bath) becomes
obligatory only when the semen spurts out or ejaculates.’ But the Muhajirs said: ‘When a man has sexual
intercourse (with the woman), a ‘ghusl’ (full bath) becomes obligatory (no
matter whether or not there is seminal emission or ejaculation).’ AbuMusa said: Well, I shall satisfy you on
this (issue). He (AbuMusa, the narrator)
said: ‘I stood up, (went) to Aisha and sought her permission which was granted.
I said to her: :O Mother of the Faithful, I want to ask you about a matter
about which I feel shy.” She said:
“Don't feel shy of asking me about a thing which you can ask your mother who
gave birth to you, for I too am your mother.”
Upon this I said: “What makes a ‘ghusl’ obligatory for a person?” She replied: “You have come across one who is
well informed! The Messenger of Allah (saws) said: “When the private parts (of
the man and the woman) touch each other. a ‘ghusl’ becomes obligatory.”’
Two acts during the process of sexual intercourse makes
‘ghuls’ obligatory:
Q-3:How can i know
that my wife is sexually satisfied. Pls explain
Satisfaction is but an intimate feeling and there are no
visible or tangible signs to determine whether one has sexually satisfied one’s
spouse or not; thus if one has a doubt, or one fears that one’s spouse might
not be satisfied, one should seek an opportune moment and honestly and frankly
confirm with their spouse.
Q-5): Can my wife
swallow my madhi and mani
To derive pleasure by touching ones spouse’s private parts
with the mouth is what is known as ‘oral sex’.
Such an act is obviously unnatural, unhealthy, unhygienic,
unclean, impure and this act is not found even in any of the lower animate
creations!
Because oral sex is a new deviation of mankind, it finds
specific mention neither in the Quran nor the Sunnah!
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 7 Surah
Aaraaf verse 157:
157 Those who follow the Messenger, the ‘Ummi’ (unlettered) Prophet
(Mohammed (saws)) whom they find mentioned in their own (Scriptures); in the Law
and the Gospel; for he (Prophet Mohamed (saws)) commands them what is just and
forbids them what is evil: he allows them as lawful what is ‘tayyibaat’
(good and pure) and prohibits them from what is ‘Khabaayith’ (bad, evil and
impure); He releases them from their heavy burdens and from the yokes
that are upon them. So it is those who
believe in him, honor him, help him, and follow the Light which is sent down
with him: it is they who will prosper."
But since the permissibility/impermissibility of this
specific act of what is known today as ‘oral sex’ is not mentioned by name or
act anywhere in the Quran and the Sunnah, the God-fearing and the pious amongst
the scholars in Islam have abstained from declaring it ‘haraam’; the majority
of the scholars have said that the act is from amongst the ‘khabaaith’ (impure)
and thus closer to the haraam than to the halaal, and the believers should fear
Allah and abstain from it.
Sahih Al-Bukhari Hadith 3.267 Narrated by An Numan bin Bashir
The Prophet (saws) said "Both the halaal
(lawful) and the haraam (unlawful) things are (made) obvious, and in between
them are (suspicious) doubtful matters.
So whoever forsakes those doubtful things lest he may commit a sin, will
definitely avoid what is clearly unlawful; and whoever indulges in these
(suspicious) doubtful things bravely, is likely to commit what is clearly
illegal. Sins are Allah's Hima (i.e.
private pasture) and whoever pastures (his sheep) near it, is likely to get in
it at any moment."
Beloved brother in Islam, given the unbelievable liberty
Islam has granted to the husband and the wife to enjoy conjugal relations in
their sacred bond of marriage, in our humble opinion, it would be best for the
believers who sincerely fear Allah and the Last Day to strive to abstain from
this doubtful act of ‘oral sex’; and Allah Alone Knows Best. One who sincerely fears Allah and the Last
Day must abstain from touching the private organ of their spouse with their
mouths, leave alone swallowing or consuming their sexual discharge!
Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to
Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me alone. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only
Source of Strength.
Your brother and
well wisher in Islam,
Burhan
