I dont have kids yet i have gone through medication n stuff but in vain
Mu' meneen Brothers and Sisters,
As Salaam Aleikum wa Rahmatullahi wa
Barakatuh. (May Allah's Peace, Mercy and Blessings be upon all of you)
One of our brothers/sisters has asked
this question:
i am
29 years old n i got married in 1997 means 9 years married.i dont have kids yet
i have gone through medication n stuff but in vain even now i am
undermadication v r going for test tube n dis iz second time.sometimes i am
very desperate about having kids but sometimes i feel i dont have any desire
for kids on the other hand my husband iz crazy 4 kids sometimes i feel if
somebody did magic on me n my husband coz sometimes v r fighting for nothing i
mean v really fight so badly though there iz no reason. dont know what to do.
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Answer:
Childless and magic
In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His help and ask
for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide, and whoever
He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear witness that
there is none worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that
Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers.
Your Statement: i am
29 years old n i got married in 1997 means 9 years married.i dont have kids yet
Allah Says in the Holy
Quran Chapter 42 Surah Shura verses 49-50:
49 To Allah belongs the Dominion of the heavens and the earth. He creates what He Wills. He bestows (children) male or female
according to His Will.
50 Or He bestows both males and females, and He leaves barren whom He
Wills: for He is Full of Knowledge and Power.
My
beloved and dear Sister in Islam, keep your faith constant in Allah Subhanah,
the One and Only Creator and Bestower of the Worlds. May Allah Subhanah make your trial easy for
you, and may The Lord Most Merciful bestow patience and steadfastness on you to
accept whatever He has Planned and Willed for you. May Allah Subhanah fulfill your heart’s
desire and bestow upon you righteous offspring, who become the contentment of
your eyes in the life of this world, and a source of attaining
You
should keep your full trust and faith in none save Allah Subhanah, and remain
absolutely constant in your supplications to Him. One of the best supplications
to make to the Merciful Lord when one wishes for an offspring is the humble and
wholesome supplication of the Prophet Zachariah (a.s.) when he was childless
until an abject old age.
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 21 Surah
Anbiya verses 89-90:
89 And (remember) Zakariya when he cried to
his Lord: "O my Lord! Leave me not without offspring, though Thou art
the Best of Inheritors.”
90 So We listened to him: and We granted him
Yahya: We cured his wife's (barrenness) for him. These three were ever quick in emulation in
good works: they used to call on Us with love and reverence, and humble
themselves before Us.
Another beautiful supplication one could make is the
supplication made by the Noble Prophet Ayyub (a.s.), when distress truly seized
him and he lost his health, wealth, and children as a trial from his Lord.
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 21 Surah
Anbiyaa verses 83-84:
83 And (remember) Ayyub when he cried to his
Lord "Truly distress has seized me, but Thou art the Most Merciful
of those that are merciful."
84 So We listened to him: We removed the
distress that was on him, and We restored his people to him and doubled their
number as a Grace from Ourselves, and a thing for commemoration for all who
serve Us.
My dear and beloved Sister in Islam, know with absolute
and total conviction that your condition and your desires are not unknown to your
Lord Most Gracious, for He is well aware of the exact condition of each in His
creation. Your condition is no morethan
a trial and a test bestowed upon you from your Lord, thus be constant and
consistent in your supplication to the Merciful Lord, and beseech Him and Him
Alone in humility, in awe, and in hope for all that your heart desires; for
there is none in the universe other than the One and Only Merciful Lord Who has
the Power to hear and respond to the supplications of His believing
slaves.
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 35 Surah
Fatir verse 2:
2 What Allah out of His Mercy doth bestow
on mankind, there is none who can withhold: what He doth withhold, there is
none can grant apart from Him: and He is the Exalted in Power, Full of Wisdom.
Your Statement:
sometimes i feel if somebody did magic on me n my husband
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 6 Surah
Anaam verse 17:
17 If Allah touch thee with affliction none can remove it but He; if He
touch thee with happiness He hath power over all things.
Allah says in the Holy Quran Chapter 10 Surah
Yunus verses 106-107:
And do not call besides Allah, any being that
can neither do you any good nor any harm.
For if you will do so, you shall be one of the doers of wrong. If Allah afflicts you with a calamity, there
is none to remove it, but He Himself.
Likewise, if Allah Wills to bestow a favor on you, there is none to
withhold Allah’s bounty. He bestows His
bounty on anyone of His servants He wills.
And He is The Forgiving, The Merciful.
Beloved
Sister, the first thing we, as believers, must understand that those who claim
to do magic do not have the power to hurt or benefit anyone, without the precise
permission and Will of Allah Subhanah.
No harm and no benefit can happen to the believer without the Will of
Allah Subhanah. If Allah does not will
it, all the magicians of the world can get together and try their magic on
someone, they cannot harm him in the least!; for Absolutely All Power and All
Strength belongs to none save Allah Subhanah Alone!
Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 1019 Narrated by Abu Sa'id al-Khudri
The Prophet (saws) used to seek protection
against the Jinn and the evil eye till Surahs al-Falaq and an-Naas were
revealed. After they were revealed, he (saws) stuck to them and discarded everything
beside them.
If one fears any evil from any quarter whatsoever, one
should recite the Muawwidaat (113th Surah Al-Falaq and 114th
Surah An-Naas) thus seeking refuge in the One and Only Lord Most High. Allah is our witness sister, there is no other
or better source of refuge or protection than in Allah Subhanah, the Lord of
the Worlds. After one has recited the
Muawwidaat and remained constant in its recitation, one should know and believe
with absolute conviction that they are under the refuge and protection of none
other than Allah Subhanah, and no amount or combinations of Jinns, or magic
doers, or evil-eyes, or any harm can come
towards them from any quarter of the unseen.
If one trusts, obeys, and follows the guidance and
commands of Allah and His Messenger (saws),
one can be assured of never ever being misled; but if one believes, obeys and follows any
other guidance, other than that of Allah and His Messenger (saws), one can be
assured of being led astray.
Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to
Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me alone. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only
Source of Strength.
Your brother and
well wisher in Islam,
Burhan
