I am newly wed. sumtime wen i talk 2 my wife, sum liquid comes from my penis, so is it necessary 2 take gusl or not.
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Assalaam alaikum brother,
i am newly wed. sumtime wen i talk 2 my wife, sum liquid comes from my penis,
so is it necessary 2 take gusl or not.
also wen i sleep with her, doing hugging & holding her that time also sum
liquid comes out of my penis. so is it necessary 2 take gusl or not.
sumtime even when i talk 2 her sum liquid
comes from my penis. please advice me. i am 2 much tense.
please advice me.
zazakallah khair
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Answer:
Release madhi
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Fiqh-us-Sunnah Fiqh
1.10
Wadi is a thick white secretion
discharged (by some people) after urination. It is considered impure. Aishah said, " Wadi comes out after
urination. The person should wash the private parts and perform ablution. It is not necessary to perform ghusl. This is
related by Ibn al-Mundhir. Ibn 'Abbas
related that "mani” (ejaculation or full sexual discharge) requires ghusl. As for “madhi” (prostatic fluid or initial
sexual discharge) and ‘wadi’ they require a complete purification." This is related by al-Athram. Al-Baihaqi has it with the wording,
"Concerning ‘madhi’ and ‘wadi’, he said, 'Wash your sexual organs and
perform the same type of ablution as you perform for prayer."'
Other than urine, there are
basically three types of discharges that are released from one’s private
organs:
If only Wadi or Madhi is released, one does not require a ‘ghusl’ or full bath to purify himself; he must wash his private parts and the part of his clothes or body where the ‘wadi’ or ‘madhi’ has touched, do the wudu, and he would be available for prayer.
But when the ‘Mani’ or a full
sexual discharge is released, it would become obligatory for the person to
perform a ‘ghusl’ or full bath to purify oneself before making oneself
available for prayer.
From what you have related it seems most probable that
what is being released is the ‘madhi’, thus all you need to do is wash your
private parts and the part of the clothes where the ‘madhi’ lubricant might
have touched, perform the wudu to make yourself available for prayer. There is absolutely no obligation to perform
the full bath of ghusl when the ‘madhi’ is released.
But if the ‘mani’ or a full sexual discharge is released,
it would indeed become obligatory to purify yourself with a ghusl or full bath
of purification before you can make yourself available for prayer.
Whatever written of Truth and
benefit is only due to Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error
is of me. Allah Alone Knows Best and He
is the Only Source of Strength.
Your brother and
well wisher in Islam,
Burhan