Regarding towards wife

Mu' meneen Brothers and Sisters,

As Salaam Aleikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh. (May Allah's Peace, Mercy and Blessings be upon all of you)

One of our brothers/sisters has asked this question:

my wife is a working women in state governemt and she is getiing 25,000/rs salary
i am working in state governemnt and i am geting 20,000/rs salary and she has owned an house for which she wiil give 8000/-rs and i m maintaing the house expense and all
the question is that when i ask her about balance amount she told me u have not right to ask and when it means please teel me the answe bhai

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 Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 4 Surah Nisaa verse 34: Men are the managers of the affairs of women because Allah has made one superior to the other, and because men spend of their wealth on women.


Islam has laid the complete financial responsibility in running a household or a family on the shoulders of the man. It is the duty and the responsibility of the man to make a living, and to provide from his means for the housing, and the food, and the clothing, and all other expense needed in running the family. 


The wife has absolutely no financial responsibility or obligation laid upon her by Shariah to provide for even a grain of rice for the family, even if she is a multi-millionaire in her own right!  It is the husband’s responsibility to provide her for all her needs according to his means.  If the wife works and earns some money, or she has inherited some wealth from her family; that wealth belongs solely to her and she may do with her personal wealth whatever she wills.  The husband has absolutely no right to use or demand anything from his wife’s earnings or personal wealth.  But if the wife, of her own free will, and without any force or coercion whatsoever, wishes to spend from her wealth on the house, or help her husband financially, there is no harm.    


The wife is well within her rights to spend of her wealth on herself, or give her money to anyone she wills, including her mother or her relatives or her friends, etc. If the wife has given some money to run the house to her husband as a loan, she is also well within her rights to demand the money back from her husband; and the husband has to repay the loan back to her. 


Beloved brother in Islam, the Shariah Law states that the complete and absolute financial responsibility of running a household is on the shoulders of the man, and the woman (no matter how rich she may be) is not required or obligated to spend even one cent on running the house.  But if the wife, of her own free will, and without any force or coercion whatsoever, wishes to spend her money on running the household, there is no harm.  If for any reason, the husband forces or coerces the wife in any way to share from her own personal wealth in help running the household, he will be guilty of not fulfilling his responsibility in the Court of Allah Subhanah. 

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Your brother and well wisher in Islam,

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