My Question is, If husband and wife sit togeather and talk and be near each other. And due to exitement or non exitment, the liquid of husband or of wife flows. Is Gusul Fard on them or what?

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My Question is, If husband and wife sit togeather and talk and be near each other. And

due to exitement or non exitment, the liquid of husband or of wife flows. Is Gusul Fard

on them or what?

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Ghusl after sexual release

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Fiqh-us-Sunnah Fiqh 1.10

Wadi is a thick white secretion discharged (by some people) after urination. It is considered impure.  Aishah said, " Wadi comes out after urination. The person should wash the private parts and perform ablution.  It is not necessary to perform ghusl.” This is related by Ibn al-Mundhir.  Ibn 'Abbas related that "mani” (ejaculation or full sexual discharge) requires ghusl.  As for “madhi” (prostatic fluid or initial sexual discharge) and ‘wadi’ they require a complete purification."  This is related by al-Athram.  Al-Baihaqi has it with the wording, "Concerning ‘madhi’ and ‘wadi’, he said, 'Wash your sexual organs and perform the same type of ablution as you perform for prayer."'

 

Other than urine, there are basically three types of discharges that are released from one’s private organs:

  1. Wadi (a thick white secretion immediately after uniration by some people)
  2. Madhi (a sort of slow release of lubricant just prior to a full sexual discharge)
  3. Mani (a full sexual discharge)

 

If only Wadi or Madhi is released, one does not require a ‘ghusl’ or full bath to purify himself; he must wash his private parts and the part of his clothes or body where the ‘wadi’ or ‘madhi’ has touched, do the wudu, and he would be available for prayer.

 

If Mani is released, then it become obligatory to perform a ‘ghusl’ or full bath to purify oneself.

 

Your Question: If husband and wife sit togeather and talk and be near each other. And due to exitement or non exitment, the liquid of husband or of wife flows. Is Gusul Fard on them or what?

From what you have related, it seems the discharge is only the ‘madhi’ or initial sexual lubricant and not the ‘mani’ or full sexual discharge.  When one experiences ‘madhi’, a ghusl or full bath is not obligatory and one may wash one’s private parts, do the ablution and make oneself available for prayer.

 

But when one experiences ‘mani’ or full sexual discharge, a ghusl or full bath of purification is absolutely obligatory before one can make oneself available for prayer.

 

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Your brother and well wisher in Islam,

 

Burhan

 

 

 

 

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