If a wife had sex during fasting wat to be done as kuffarah?
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Atonement sex fast
Ramadan
In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His help and ask
for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide, and whoever
He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear witness that
there is no one (no idol, no person, no
grave, no prophet, no imam, no dai,
nobody!) worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that
Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers.
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 2 Surah
Baqarah verse 187:
187 Permitted to you on the night of the fasts is the approach to your
wives.
They are your garments. And ye
are their garments. Allah knoweth what
ye used to do secretly among yourselves; but He turned to you and forgave you;
so now associate with them and seek what Allah hath ordained for you and eat
and drink until the white thread of dawn appear to you distinct from its black
thread; then complete your fast till the night appears; but do not associate
with your wives while ye are in retreat in the mosques. Those are limits (set by) Allah; come
not even near (those set limits of Allah). Thus doth Allah make clear His signs to men
that they may learn self-restraint.
Allah Subhanah has prohibited the believers from having
sexual intercourse with their wives while in the state of fasting; but it is
absolutely legal and permissible to cohabit with them during the nights after
the fast has been completed.
Abu Hurairah reported that a man came to the
Messenger of Allah (saws) and said: "I am destroyed, O Messenger of Allah
(saws)!" The Prophet (saws) asked: "What has destroyed you?" He said, "I had intercourse with my wife
during a day of Ramadan." The
Prophet (saws) asked: "Are you able to free a slave?" He said, "No". The Prophet (saws) asked:
"Is it possible for you to fast for two consecutive months?" He said,
"No." The Prophet (saws) asked: "Is it possible for you to feed
sixty poor people?" He said, "No." The Prophet (saws) said: "Then sit."
A basket of dates was brought to the
Prophet (saws) and he said to the man: ‘Give this in charity.’ The man said:
"To someone poorer than us? There is no one in this city who is poorer
than us!" The Prophet (saws)
laughed until his molar teeth could be seen and said: "Go and feed your
family with it."
Related by Muslim and Bukhari.
If one is unable to control one’s desires for any reason
and were to perform the actual act of sexual intercourse with ones wife while
in the state of fasting, it would indeed be a grave sin in the Sight of Allah. The atonement for this sin as prescribed by
the Messenger of Allah (saws) is that the person should either free a slave, or
(if he is unable to do that) fast for two consecutive months, or (if he is
unable to do even that) feed sixty poor people!
Such is the enormity of the sin and the atonement of having sexual
intercourse with one’s wife while one is in the state of fasting.
Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to
Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me alone. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only
Source of Strength.
Your brother and well wisher in
Islam,
Burhan